The most empowering position in life is the realization of the fact that we have control over ourselves, and the path that our lives take – this is an exceptionally empowering notion.
“A man has to learn that he cannot command things, but that he can command himself; that he cannot coerce the wills of others, but that he can mold and master his own will: people seek guidance of him who is master of himself.” – James Allen
There is so much power in the assurance I have when I remind myself of the fact that I am in charge of my life and my own affairs. It is not someone else’s responsibility, but MINE. I am born to control my affairs – no buck passing.
Let me tell you: it is a tragedy to relinquish that control to any other being.
This past week, a client of mine came to me with this challenge: she came to me feeling like her life wasn’t under her control. She felt like other people had more control over her life than she did. I asked her to note the specific situations in which she felt this way.
Guess what we discovered?
What ‘3rd party trigger’ is responsible?
What can we do about it?
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