A great number of us would claim we understand the "law of attraction" and principles of manifesting and so on. However, we cannot explain why the things we desire don't always come to us. This is in-spite of the fact that we believe wholeheartedly, that we can create our own reality.
Many will tell you they understand the law of attraction, and they believe that what we think about, we can attract into our experience. Indeed, many have practiced these principles for decades.
Many are no strangers to chanting affirmations such as:
“My income level is constantly increasing”
“My perfect relationship is available to me”
“I deserve to have what I want”
Curiously though, for many of us, that perfect relationship or ideal income isn’t a reality yet.
You've probably already tried blaming your parents or your environment for your limiting beliefs, right? Well, I have news for you - it really doesn’t matter where your beliefs come from, or how many of them you have. There is a way out and the responsibility is yours to find it!
“The entire universe is conspiring to give you everything you want” -Abraham Hicks.
The Universe actually wants to bring your desires to you. However, I think She may need a little help from you! The Universe needs you to stop the blame game! The Universe also needs you get up off your backside and do some 'grunt work' to manifest the outcomes you want!
I have a suggestion for you: instead of feeling unworthy, beating yourself up, cowering in fear or having a pity party, how about asking yourself how you can create the amazing results you know you desire and deserve?
To begin with, what exactly is it that you want (do you have vividness and clarity about this)?
What is standing between you and what you want (what is the identified limitation or challenge)?
What do you need to do to get what you want (tools, strategies, knowledge, skills, mindset change)?
Who do you need to help you (mentors, coaches, teachers, trainers, collaborators, accountability partners)?
The bottom line is this: QUIT SITTING IN LIMBO! You’ll never get anywhere until you start moving! Quit waiting indefinitely, believing it is possible to have all you desire just by sitting pretty and waiting. Take a moment to do a soul search. Time for some honest questions: ask yourself whether you have done your part to help the Universe (or God, if you prefer) to fulfil your desires.
While you’re at it, don't forget one important little piece of the puzzle that could perhaps be the missing link. ACT a.k.a TAKE ACTION. Try it and watch to see how taking action could change things for you today.
“To live your greatest life, you must first become a leader within yourself. Take charge of your life” – Sonia Ricotti